This post is dedicated to all the fathers in the world. Usually, there is a greater bonding with parents of opposite gender. Mom will be having greater bonding with son and dad will be having greater bonding with daughter. The first real hero of every boy will be his dad. He will try to imitate them. A son always expect his dad to support him and look upon the opinion of his dad. But, after certain age the habit of son changes, that can be called as adolescent age in which, he would start to develop a hatred towards dad due to father's over expectations on him.
There is nothing wrong for a father to expect too much from his son. After all father is living for his children and family and not for himself. The same is in case with mother also. Mom shows the love expected by the son at that time. Dad too has a lot of love for his son, but never showcased it like mom does. There is a certain stage in which a son has to take decision on his own, without too much dependence on his dad. Yes, dads are strict with son, but they do it not to make dominate them, but to ensure that their son does not choose the wrong path.
There are a lot of moments, when dad shows his anger on us, but we should not mind it as we might get the same, when we also undertake tough jobs. They might be wrong at certain times, but there is a way in expressing it, so that he will consider our task and implement them. We will also realise their importance when we stay away from them. He is the one who feels proud and happy for our victory and feels sad and sorry for our defeat.They are not our enemies, but most of them feel like that.
There is again a certain age to realise the importance of sacrifice and hardships that our dad undergoes, we realise it only when we become a dad. Film industry is also depicting them in a wrong manner. That should be avoided, there may be certain cases in which dad might be a drunkard and does not support his family, but he will also have a true love for his family, but not able to express them as he is not in a conscious state of mind for doing that. There will be a definite point of time in which son would realise dad's love at certain stage of his life like i did.
There is nothing wrong for a father to expect too much from his son. After all father is living for his children and family and not for himself. The same is in case with mother also. Mom shows the love expected by the son at that time. Dad too has a lot of love for his son, but never showcased it like mom does. There is a certain stage in which a son has to take decision on his own, without too much dependence on his dad. Yes, dads are strict with son, but they do it not to make dominate them, but to ensure that their son does not choose the wrong path.
There are a lot of moments, when dad shows his anger on us, but we should not mind it as we might get the same, when we also undertake tough jobs. They might be wrong at certain times, but there is a way in expressing it, so that he will consider our task and implement them. We will also realise their importance when we stay away from them. He is the one who feels proud and happy for our victory and feels sad and sorry for our defeat.They are not our enemies, but most of them feel like that.
There is again a certain age to realise the importance of sacrifice and hardships that our dad undergoes, we realise it only when we become a dad. Film industry is also depicting them in a wrong manner. That should be avoided, there may be certain cases in which dad might be a drunkard and does not support his family, but he will also have a true love for his family, but not able to express them as he is not in a conscious state of mind for doing that. There will be a definite point of time in which son would realise dad's love at certain stage of his life like i did.
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