Random Thoughts of Tram

                      We always wanted to give our best in all the challenges that we undergo. unless and until we are least bothered about the outcome, we will never ever give up. Every time, the best cannot be expected from ours. And there is no stage that, we can say that we have done the maximum. We can still improve on the maximum achievement that has been set up as the benchmark. There are certain situations that will bring in the best in us. Mostly the situation might be the crisis situation that brings the best among us. I have experienced the same in many times of my life. In certain times, this might backfire. But, the crisis situations brings in a lot of learning to us.                         I could start from the school final examination. I am very good at Mathematics. Once, I had got fever before the day of Physics Examination. I had prepared very well for...

                     Unless and until we are under certain circumstances, we won't get to know the sufferings or pain of others. Getting Homesick is one among them. Home sick is nothing but, Staying out of home for some reason like work or studies and so on and the idea of always wanting to go home. When I was studying in college, I was a day scholar and there were a lot of hostlers, They mostly would like to go to their home on the weekends, if they are staying nearby and some of them might go to their home on a 3 day leave or so. I had raised the question among them, Is it so necessary to go their home on every weekend.                      The answer that I would get from most of them was yes. I used to make fun of them, we don't have a guarantee that you might get a job in the same city or nearby city. What you might do,when you get a chance to work in a place that is far...

                      Attitude is determining the personality of a person. There are a lot of people who doesn't have the don't care attitude. Don't care attitude is nothing but treating both the success and failure in an equal manner. We must take the victory to our head and the defeat to our heart. These are the common things that all of us might be well aware of. Don't care attitude makes us believe in ourselves and shows us the right path. But, there are certain situations in which, we cannot posses these don't care attitude. There are certain scenarios in which we need to speak up, otherwise we might end up in trouble.                       Now, let us take this scenario, If we are working in a company and we have to get the promotion as we have shown a great performance and we have been profitable to company. Still, we are being evaded from getting the promotion, as the...

                                Everything is not the same. There may be some similarities between them. I can say that no two things can be exactly the same. This statement not only holds good for things but also people. Even the twins cannot be exactly the same. There would be some distinguishing factor among them which acts as a difference. This difference is nothing but their individuality. In most of the cases, there are no proper platforms to exhibit the individuality. The individuality may be a certain small habit or talent or anything, which defines you and makes you stand tall and unique from others.                               It can either be a singing talent or your artistic nature or dancing talent. Mostly, the individuality deals with the first thing that strikes on other's mind, when they think about you. In certai...

                         External appearances are deceptive. The real beauty lies in way in which we perceive things. There are a lot of things that have hidden beauty that shows the real beauty. There are certain things which makes other things beautiful. In other words, they add external beauty to everything. The ink added to eyes add a beauty. Adding a lie to the poem adds beauty. The pit that falls on the chin, The Darkish hair, The walk during our youth time is a beauty, The gray hair that comes during our old age is a beauty. For the thieves night is the beautiful thing and for lovers moon is a beautiful thing.                         The wings of a bird is a beauty to it. The hunch on the back is beauty for old people and child is beautiful to her mother. The early morning clouds are awesome and the sleeping girl looks awesome. The cover of paddy adds be...

                                 Confidence is very important in each and everyone's life. Without confidence, there is nothing that world that can be achieved, unless and until you have something called mere luck. Confidence is measured in some levels. The level may be high or low. This post height of confidence, measures the confidence of a person with a level and the reasons for not getting confidence. The major reason for not gaining confidence was his height. This guy is a level shorter than most of his friends. Though is average in height, in many cases he does not have confidence and claims his height as the reason.                                   He has faced a lot of things due to his height factor. In his childhood, he has went for some rides in amusement parks. He was some 11 years may be and he was not ...

                               It is always important that how well we handle critical situations. Definitely every time, we won't be in a critical situation, if we are in a critical situation, then there is something wrong in overall system. We have to posses the best thinking at that time, our mind should be strong enough to face such situation. There will be a lot of thoughts travelling around our mind. Sometimes, we might reach a position, where our mind might get pissed off and gets ready to drop the plan totally. But, we should have a control over mind and ensure that nothing of that sort happens.                               It is very important aspect in our life. The critical situation not only comes in business, it may also happen in life, sometimes in loan or even in sports or leisurely activities also. We must be ready...

                                       Only god knows what is happening in and around some person. no one can exactly say what would happen to them with 100% accuracy. In most of the people's life, something fishy is happening. That is they are not sure what is happening and why it is happening. Most of the part of the life is unpredictable. We will think one and the real happening is totally different. There is a saying that, if whatever we think happens accurately, as there is nothing called god, but if we keep on thinking whatever had happened, then we won't get peace at all.                                        We cannot understand anything in this world. Everything is mystery in this world. Everyone wants to create history, sometimes it is mystery and rest of the times it become h...

                                We people are always good at cope up with something. There are certain situations in which we would try to hide certain things or happenings from others. There may be many reasons for hiding the truth from others. This art of providing a reason by coping up with something which we mishandled or handled in a wrong way is called as  reasoning. In certain process, there will be some logic behind this reasoning which, we all know as logical reasoning. Certain reasoning will not have the capability to convince people, it might result in confusing people which is called as logic less reasoning.                                   The main drawback of this logic less reasoning is that, people will easily find out that he is coping up with cooked up stories. That should not happen, the coping up...

                                   Everyone in this world will have a definite enemies. There is no one who can claim that they don't have enemies in this world. only difference may be certain people might know their enemies and certain people might not know they enemies. Certain people might love their enemies and certain people might decide their enemy. There is a criteria that certain person keep to make their enemies but they insist that there is no criteria to become a friend to them. People having unknown enemies are more fearsome than the people who are having known enemies. We can have few predictions about the enemy who are known to us.                                    But, what about these unknown enemies, we are not sure about the direction of attacking from them. They might attack in any possi...

                                     It is always better to stay away from problems. Not because that we are afraid of problems, it is because that we need to enjoy life. If we get into some problem, we need to solve it. No one can evade from all the problems, there is a sure shot that everyone need to overcome certain situations in which problems are involved. The main unwanted problems are created when we try to hurt the feelings or sentiments of others. If a person is related to us, then we can have fun with them without hurting each other, but the same thing might turn awry when this kind of situation with an unknown person.                                      A socially responsible person, will try to stand behind people, if any kind of injustice is happening to even an unknown person. But, ...

                                   Estimation can also be stated as predicting for future. Certain decisions need to be taken by estimation only. There is very few chance that our estimation works out properly in 100 percentage. There will be a definite deviation from the actual value that we receive from the estimated value. This difference between actual and the predicted value is called as error. If the estimated value is higher than the actual value, then it is called under estimation and vice versa is called as over estimation. Over estimation can be forgiven, if we get the value less than our estimation, we have to see where we have given a wrong prediction and should rectify it next time.                                  But under estimation is a mistake as we ourselves valuate something less than it's or...

                                  It is always difficult to choose between the two, if they are many choices at least we can somehow eliminate one by one and get the result. If there are only two choices, it will be very difficult, both may be very close to right. Similar situation is to decide between the past period of our life and future period of our life. We can say an easy word that people should be worried about the present and should not mind about the past or future. But, we must understand something that past is like a investment, if there is a good investment in the past, there would be good returns in the present which can be reserved for future as well.                                  But, there may be conditions to be applied on each and every other case. The future calculations can be made with the he...

                             Anything might happen at any time in any one's life. Especially this statement is true with regards to status of a person. The events or happenings of life cannot be controlled by us. We all know about the snake ladder game. There would be a destination to reach, may be 100 if we suppose. There will be a lot of ups and downs in that game. We can't predict that who will win at anytime. You might be at the top. but there might be some snake which might make you fall down and come to the bottom position. In certain times, you might be in the bottom-most position, but the ladders can help you to reach higher levels.                               There might be certain stages where you might not be left with any snakes or ladders. During those times, We need to make moves such that it is helpful for others. Those...

                                There is a limit for everything, nothing in this world is endless. There is a certain definite endpoint for everything. Whatsoever it may be. But, we are not able to understand the reason for which people are doing certain things without considering their limitations. this comes to the cases where they are investing in properties and the related activities. Yes, we can consider that savings is always important, it might benefit for us in future. But, there is a limit for that. That too if the savings are being done in a proper manner. Nevertheless, most of them are cheating government and threatening people to acquire those properties.                                 Next thing which is being done without any limit is unnecessary talks, That too this comes when they speak or chat about the celeb...

                                    The important things for a particular person keeps on changing. It does not stay constant, unless it might be a long term goals. unless and otherwise it keeps on changing. Many people doesn't give importance to those who give importance them. I feel sorry for being one among them. There should be a importance given for almost everything that is happening around us. But, the level of importance holds the key factor. We might consider someone as the important and integral part of our life, but they might not find us important to them. In, certain cases there are a few who give much more importance to us but we might miss them.                                     The above mentioned statements might have happened in at least some people in this world, if i am not wrong. The ...

                                 Patience is always needed in our life. We need to put effort in some things and need the patience to wait to get the desired result. If something goes wrong in what we had performed, we need the patience to analyse what had gone wrong. The anger is the dearest enemy to our hero patience. Many people think, how can we be patient when something wrong is happening around us. It is damn true in that case. Patient is nothing but a slight calmness that is needed in doing a work. If we are in a tension and hurry in performing a task, there is a chance of something that might go wrong. Patience prevents that.                                  Patience is a quality I had observed in many people. I would like to mention Rahul Dravid and the patience i had observed in him. Once upon a time, when ...

                                            Beauty is a thing which does not remain constant it keeps on changing. A positive and broad minded people might think everything in the world as beautiful. But, that does not happen mostly as there are more number of narrow minded people in this world. People always have a mind set that skin color and the physical features make one beautiful. A major portion of these perception have come from the TV programs, movies and other medium of communication which impacts the life of people.                                            The most significant contributor of this perception is from the movies that are being pictured. They will show a guy falling in love with a girl who will be beautiful by physical appearance. And in the s...

                                       Each and every individual has to move to the next phase or stage of the life. Everyone cannot remain in the same stage. A betterment is needed in each and every stage. A child from the birth is being taught to survive rather than enjoyment. He is being told that, if you do this part of your life well, the next part will be enjoyment, but what is happening is extremely opposite. He expects one thing but the thing that is happening is entirely different from the reality. When the child is joined in school, he is being made to work hard for marks, so that he will study in a better college.                                      But, when he moves to that college phase of his life, he realizes that, school phase was better as there was teacher and parents to g...