We all know that there is no gender biased as both men and women are equal. This holds good for boys as well as girls. But, there are a lot of restrictions being levied on girls stating a cultural reason. There are certain boys who are having a problem of speaking with the girls. There may be many reasons for doing so. Now, let me state some of them. The first and foremost reason might be, he might not have got a chance of being with the sibling of opposite gender. That is elder sister or younger one. If the guys have sisters, half of the fear to speak with girls will be reduced.
School may be the second reason, there are lot of schools which will be for only boys or only girls. The people studying in these schools doesn't get opportunity to mingle with the students of other gender. The people studying in co-educational institutions mostly won't find any problems, related to communicate with the opposite gender. Girls mostly won't have hesitation is asking certain things. Here, our boys also mostly won't hesitate when they fall under this criteria. The third and main criteria is the college scenario. The people studying in arts college doesn't face such restrictions and they easily mingle with opposite gender and those ones in medical college also won't face such restrictions.
The major occurrence of this problem happens in engineering college in certain parts of the country, where they have this system of putting fine, providing transfer certificate or dismissing students, when they interact with the student of opposite gender. This creates another big impact on the minds of male candidate. The blame will be mostly on the male student rather than female student by nature. These are some of the reasons for the improper interaction of the opposite gender people, especially male struggling to speak with girls.
It makes a greater impact on the boy when he was supposed to take important decisions of his life, when he works in company, he might not be comfortable to speak with his colleague of opposite gender, then when he gets married, he might face a lot of issues to lead a life with his better half. So, it is always necessary to ensure that men and women are given opportunity to indulge in conversations, so that there is no problem faced in the future, otherwise there will lot of issues for which solution cannot be found.
School may be the second reason, there are lot of schools which will be for only boys or only girls. The people studying in these schools doesn't get opportunity to mingle with the students of other gender. The people studying in co-educational institutions mostly won't find any problems, related to communicate with the opposite gender. Girls mostly won't have hesitation is asking certain things. Here, our boys also mostly won't hesitate when they fall under this criteria. The third and main criteria is the college scenario. The people studying in arts college doesn't face such restrictions and they easily mingle with opposite gender and those ones in medical college also won't face such restrictions.
The major occurrence of this problem happens in engineering college in certain parts of the country, where they have this system of putting fine, providing transfer certificate or dismissing students, when they interact with the student of opposite gender. This creates another big impact on the minds of male candidate. The blame will be mostly on the male student rather than female student by nature. These are some of the reasons for the improper interaction of the opposite gender people, especially male struggling to speak with girls.
It makes a greater impact on the boy when he was supposed to take important decisions of his life, when he works in company, he might not be comfortable to speak with his colleague of opposite gender, then when he gets married, he might face a lot of issues to lead a life with his better half. So, it is always necessary to ensure that men and women are given opportunity to indulge in conversations, so that there is no problem faced in the future, otherwise there will lot of issues for which solution cannot be found.
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