INDIVIDUAL HOUSE OR FLAT - WHICH IS BETTER

                              As discussed earlier, shelter is the third most basic necessity of man kind. House is very important for all the people. Once upon a time there were a lot of individual houses and there was a concept of joint family with all the relatives living together in a same house. But, after the advancement of technology, there were the availability of jobs in different locations which were at a long distance from their home. Daily travel to their home from the place where they are working was very difficult. So, the joint family has been split up and the requirement of separate homes and the number of houses increased rapidly.

                               We can say urbanization also as one of the reasons, looking out for better jobs and facilities in urban areas, rather than a struggling life in village has made people to migrate from their homes. At the initial stages of migration, there were probability of finding out individual houses or building the individual houses. But, the population kept on increasing exponentially and the necessity to accommodate large number of population in a lesser area became mandatory. This can also be stated as density of population. The density of population started to decrease and the requirement of flats became need of the hour.

                               Yes, We agree with the fact that flat is able to accommodate a large number of people rather than individual house and the diversification is people is possible in flats rather than the individual houses. But, the main problem arises in maintenance. The maintenance of individual houses costs lesser than the amount required for maintaining the flats. The water supply needed for the flats would be more than the individual houses. There may be parking facilities provided by flats, but the soil is highly degraded by construction of flats rather than individual houses. The people can have their own freedom if they stay in individual house rather than the one that is prevailing in flats.

                               There would be lot of restrictions of people staying in flats if they are tenants. But, the individual houses might have lesser restrictions. With respect to current scenario, it is definitely not possible to build individual houses as the cost of constructing individual houses for an individual is more than him buying a flat. On my opinion Individual houses are the better ones with the amenities available but taking the present scenario into consideration the flats stand a step higher than the individual houses.

MY FAVOURITE HORROR MOVIE

                                 Horror is a genre of movies which everyone would like to experience. Even from kids till elderly people, everyone like to watch the horror movies, even if they are scared of watching them. There are certain movies that people never wanted to watch as the level of horror won't be up to their expectations. They are certain movies which prohibits certain people from watching these movies. The prohibited people might be below the age of 18 years, they might be pregnant ladies or certain people those who have weakened heart. It is better for them to avoid these kind of movies. I rarely watch English movies to be frank.

                                But, the horror movie that I liked the most was definitely an Hollywood Movie. I don't know, why I liked this movie. Another advantage of these horror movies, would be for those couples. Whenever a scary scene comes in the movie, these couples will be romancing and an opportunity for them to get closer. We went to a theater that was filled with couples, except a few guys who were single like us. I went with my friends as they were desperate to watch this movie. The reason for avoiding English movies, was the speed with which they converse, I cannot understand the whole dialogue. Thank god, that day there were subtitles for that movie, which made me comfortable to watch that movie.

                                There may be many great horror movies, but why did I like this movie?. Of course, the number of horror movies that I have watched might be less. But, there was something unique in that movie. This movie stood out from the number of horror movies that I watched previously. The suspense and thrill this movie created was a different level for me. The commercial elements of this movie was great. No big actors or actress needed for a movie to succeed, it was the plot and the way the screenplay has been done is just enough to make the movie a successful one. As a common audience, I feel that this movie satisfied that criteria.

FOLK DANCE

                              Dance is an art which cannot be performed by everyone, but it can be learned by anyone in this world. The main thing required to learn dance is dedication, hard work and passion to learn these dance steps. There are many varieties of dance that everyone are aware of. The folk dance is one among them and it is being followed as a traditional form of dance in Tamil Nadu. The folk dance is performed for the fast paced songs that has greater usage of the devices that needs stick to beat them. Mostly the folk dance is very much renown in the village side.

                             Folk song has the power to awaken the sleeping people or the people who does not know to dance to make them dance. Such is the enthusiasm and the interest created by these folk songs. Folk songs mostly consists of the lyrics that might be about anything, sometimes it may be meaningless and non understandable form, but still it has the ability to make other people dance for them. There are most number of people who like these songs from inner self but they won't establish their liking for these songs outside as they might feel about the thinking of other people and fear of being treated as local people.

                            Many Music directors might have failed in giving romantic numbers but they have been back on track by giving hit numbers on these folk songs. Such is the power of folk songs, it will be hit from class to mass and almost all centers. Children below 15 years would definitely like these songs and try to sing them. In most of the folk songs, there need not be particular steps to be followed, we can try our own steps, if we ensure that the tempo of our dance matches with the tempo of the song. So, We need not feel about the thinking of other people about as local, we just need to enjoy dancing for these songs and feel relaxed.

LEARNING PROCESS OF CYCLING

                                  This is one of the interesting happenings in my personal life. My mom wanted me to learn cycling after sending me to my grand mother's house. But, I was interested a lot in playing cricket than learning cycling. My cousins might force me to make me learn cycling. There was a concept called as Hour cycle. There will be some cycle in the shops and we need to pay some money as advance and we need to take them and return it back. based on the number of hours we use, we need to pay accordingly. So, after a long advise from my cousins, I would agree to take that cycle for rental.

                                  Someone will bring it to our street. They dont want to risk with me as our street was dead and most of the time, no big vehicles will come. They would be holding me and would ask me to pedal the cycle. Suddenly, they would be leaving the cycle to get balance. But, I might keep my leg and stop the cycle. I won't realize that I need to continue pedaling. Once, I was very scared and asked them not to leave the cycle suddenly. There were holding cycle and I was pedaling, I used to turn back and see, whether they are holding or not. Suddenly, they used to leave, I would realize and stop it.

                                Once, While pedaling the cycle, I lost balance completely and then I forgot to keep my legs down and dashed a big rock. I started to bleed, my grand mom took me inside and asked others not to give cycle to him, let him grow little more. I was totally relieved. But after realizing that, the younger guys started to ride cycle, I decided to learn it somehow. I went to one more cousin's house during some other vacation and with help of them and his father, I somehow managed to learn cycle without getting injured. The confidence, they gave me was wonderful. Not to blame other cousins, they too tried very hard, but it was my fate to learn from my younger cousin rather than elder ones.

    

IDOL BURNING PROTEST

                                Whatever may be the condition, when a person attains different heights and becomes famous, there would definitely be lot of people following them. As the amount of love and liking towards that person increases, the amount of hatred also increases. This mostly happens in the case of celebrities those who are actors or politicians or sportsmen or businessman. It is rare scenario to be famous or popular, if we are not in any of these fields. If any of these famous celebrity is getting involved in any type of controversy, there will always be a protest against them. The protest majorly will be like burning the idol of these celebrities.

                                 I am not sure whether it is still being followed all over the country, as far as I know, this protest happens still in some parts of the country. The people might expect, their star players to win cup for their country, but if they fail, they are treated so badly, Idol burning protest is one among them. The cine star actors, idols are not dealt with much, but if they come up with some controversial statements, there is a chance of their idol being burned. The similar scenario happens with businessman as well as politicians if am not wrong.

                                We can understand the hatred of people, they have such amount of murder hysteria on those people. But, is there any use of these protest?. It might be a one bad day, the sportsperson might have failed. Even god fails sometimes, how can a normal human being avoid getting failed. The cine stars statements can be taken back easily as politicians do. These politicians and businessman needs to change by themselves or through law, these protests are totally useless as far as I concern. It is just a waste of time and money.

                                I don't know, from where these people get time and money for performing such activities. Even if they get some benefit out of it, There is a major threat to the environment due to burning of these elements. It is an unnecessary waste. Instead of burning these idols, it is better to burn the real wastes, which will at least provide clean surroundings. We cannot protect environment as it is already damaged a lot, we can ensure that at-least, we can prevent it from getting damaged further. This was a good thought process from one of the comedy actor, felt like sharing it.

CALL DURATION STATISTICS

                                 Calling others and speaking has been reduced due to the advancement of internet. You can text in whats app have a voice call, video call, or voice message and so on. But, still if the person whom we want to contact is not available we are making use of this call facilities. Certain mobile service providers asks us to put some talk time boosters, so that we can have free calls. Certain other networks asks us to top up for less amount as a booster and then pay less for each and every call they make. For those who are making many number of calls, the first method might be suitable and those who are having less calls, the second method might be feasible.

                                 Certain boosters have terms and conditions like 10p/min but the first 2mins are charged at 75p/min, which is almost similar to charging and they make u call more, if you have crossed the 2 minute limit. And the most important thing to be noted is if the time is limit less than 60, the amount deducted must be for the charges corresponding to that single minute. If the total count of seconds reach 60 also, the amount will be charged for second minute also, which I totally agree. But, what I observed was the service providers have some tools that make the 58 secs call to 60 sec call and 59 seconds call to 61 sec calls.

                               This is being done to charge for the 2nd minute also. I intentionally never bothered about the number of seconds i speak and rather bother about the amount being deducted. These two things were the ones that I observed accidentally. During some times, the total duration of call was 59 seconds according to the call summary and the statistics present in the call duration tracking device of my phone. But, according to the service provider it is 61 seconds. I don't know the mystery behind that. Both are similar or not ?. Because once, the call gets disconnected only, we can get the call summary.

                              If they both are different from each other I want to know, in what way they both differ from each other. If, they both are same, then why are we are not getting the same count for both of them or the service providers intentionally make use of this trick to generate income as people might not give importance to these few seconds and few amount of money involved in it?. It would be great if someone could explain me regarding this doubt and make me clear?. It may be a silly question or improper understanding of the concept. Still I need the clarity here.

ISSUES FOR MEN RELATING TO WOMEN

                         We all know that there is no gender biased as both men and women are equal. This holds good for boys as well as girls. But, there are a lot of restrictions being levied on girls stating a cultural reason. There are certain boys who are having a problem of speaking with the girls. There may be many reasons for doing so. Now, let me state some of them. The first and foremost reason might be, he might not have got a chance of being with the sibling of opposite gender. That is elder sister or younger one. If the guys have sisters, half of the fear to speak with girls will be reduced.

                         School may be the second reason, there are lot of schools which will be for only boys or only girls. The people studying in these schools doesn't get opportunity to mingle with the students of other gender. The people studying in co-educational institutions mostly won't find any problems, related to communicate with the opposite gender. Girls mostly won't have hesitation is asking certain things. Here, our boys also mostly won't hesitate when they fall under this criteria. The third and main criteria is the college scenario. The people studying in arts college doesn't face such restrictions and they easily mingle with opposite gender and those ones in medical college also won't face such restrictions.

                        The major occurrence of this problem happens in engineering college in certain parts of the country, where they have this system of putting fine, providing transfer certificate or dismissing students, when they interact with the student of opposite gender. This creates another big impact on the minds of male candidate. The blame will be mostly on the male student rather than female student by nature. These are some of the reasons for the improper interaction of the opposite gender people, especially male struggling to speak with girls.

                          It makes a greater impact on the boy when he was supposed to take important decisions of his life, when he works in company, he might not be comfortable to speak with his colleague of opposite gender, then when he gets married, he might face a lot of issues to lead a life with his better half. So, it is always necessary to ensure that men and women are given opportunity to indulge in conversations, so that there is no problem faced in the future, otherwise there will lot of issues for which solution cannot be found.

NECESSITY OF ENTERANCE EXAMINATIONS

                            There are certain professional courses, that demand entrance examinations. But, the laws have been passed and there is no need of the entrance examinations for the institutions that comes under the state government. There is a percentage of seats that needs to be allocated for the students based on the merit list of the higher secondary marks, that they have obtained. That mark is known as cut-off mark. Based on the cut-off mark, the rank list of the students would be prepared and the they can chose their preferred colleges and preferred courses. There are certain seats that would be allocated for reservations, that is different issue which is not given importance here.

                             There was the compulsory entrance examination that has to be attended by the students of the particular state, if they had to take up a career with professional courses. But, the government felt that, this might be unfair as the students from villages and interior district might not have proper facilities for coaching classes and they might lose up on opportunity to take up professional courses. On one point of view, it is definitely a good initiative to encourage the students from villages and distinct areas to take up professional courses. But, on the other hand, it definitely has a bad impact on the education system.

                             The entrance exams test the real ability of the students and it looks upon the analyzing ability and the time management and many more things. The understanding of student is tested, whereas our higher secondary syllabus is just "Read and Vomit" kind of education. There is a chance of deserving student to lose an opportunity because of the counselling. After entering the college, there is a chance of the topper to get arrears in the first semester, as the conceptualization and methodology of learning changes from the higher secondary education that they had.

                              Instead of eliminating the entrance examination, it would be worthy if the government take initiative to arrange for coaching classes of the entrance examinations in these villages and other distant areas. So, that everyone would be moulded to face the examinations with the equal amount of opportunity and the real talents might be revealed. So, I would like to conclude by saying that entrance examinations are mandatory to make learning a better experience rather than the bitter one that is existing at the present scenario.

ENCOUNTER WITH DOGS

                                This is another important incident that happened in my life and the host would be none other than dogs. Dogs are the best pet animals to grow as they are so much trustworthy to us. But, I never grew any dog. I was afraid of dogs from my childhood. But, My parents told me one thing to remember, dogs won't do anything to us, until we get scared of them. If we look scared then they might think as thieves and try to attack us. But, we should not allow such an incident to happen. We must feel confident while moving across the path in which they are present.

                                 The dogs present in our street doesn't attack us as they know our smell and realize that we belong to this area. One of my area guys was growing a dog. It was a German Shepard. All the guys who used to play with him are very friendly to that dog. But, I am very scared of it. Once we were playing in terrace of his house. I hit the ball outside, so I need to take the ball. By mistake I opened the door it ran away. After few mins we realized that he was missing. We somehow went in search of it and brought it back home. From, that time, whenever I hit the ball out, someone else will go there and bring the ball instead of me.

                                Then the encounter with street dogs, as the dogs got used to my smell, then never bother to attack me. I always roam freely in and around my street. There is a proverb "Barking Dogs Seldom Bite", that is totally wrong there are dogs that even bark as well as bite. Then the next encounter with dogs happened in the place that I work. I stayed in different city away from my home. Once, after returning home from bus stand, the dog was barking, I thought it was barking on someone else, but it was barking towards me and approached me. I lost my mind, ran a whole street like a guy running 100m race.

                                There was one gap in which I entered and dog stopped before that point. I don't know whether they have borders or something. It did not cross that point. One of the guy in that street asked me why can't you throw stone at it. I felt that throwing stone at a dog is an inhumane act. I was terrified at that moment. From that moment, the dogs present there always barked at me. I never crossed that place alone. When I come with someone else, it does not bark or come behind me. We had played cricket in that place and one of the guys grew a dog named "Anthamma", that was so pet to us. Whenever it seen us, it will come with us. It fights with different dogs for us.

                              We would have fed them with little biscuits some times, nothing more than that, still it is very much attached to us. The final encounter of dogs was at the hostel where am studying now. One of the dog named "Lapi", it has lost one of its legs in an accident, we felt sorry for it and feed it. The final were the three puppies, who were very cute and soft. Everyone started to lose interest on Lapi and concentrate on puppies. The way puppies do certain crazy activities are really wonderful. Hope those puppies would have become grown during our summer vacation, let me hope, if I could find them as grown up, when I reach college hostel again.

IMMUNITY

                       Immunity is nothing but the amount of energy to withstand the diseases. Everybody has this immune system in our body. Some might have a strong immune system, which acts as a protective shielding and prevent the foreign body diseases to enter our body and cause infection. On the other hand there are certain people, who might have a weaker immune system which gets easily affected to these diseases. The damaged stage of immune system gets us weakened and responsible for producing a dangerous disease called as AIDS(Acquired Immuno Deficiency Syndrome).This disease is mainly caused by a virus known as HIV( Human Immuno Deficiency Virus).

                      There are two kinds of immunity present in the human system. One part is called as Humoral innate immunity, involves variety of substances found in the humors or body fluids. The other part is called as innate immunity, which is carried out by cells called as phagocytes, that ingest and degrade or eat pathogens and destroy cancerous cells. The health of immune system is greatly impacted by the person's emotional state, level of stress, lifestyle, dietary habits and nutritional status.There are certain factors or kind of food habits that need to be followed to avoid damaging of these immune system.

                        Avoid eating too much of sugar as they might cause malfunctioning of white blood cells which lose its capacity to kill bacteria. Drink good amount of water regularly. Avoid putting on excess weights and keep a good level of BMI(Body mass Index).Avoiding being stressed too much as this might result in weakening of immune system. If you often get a cold, consult with doctor and take necessary steps to diagnose the disease and take treatment. As we all know the proverb "Health is Wealth", we need to ensure that our health is not affected by any disease and for that we should have proper immune system.

DEATH DANCE

                               There is a tradition or custom, being followed in certain parts of Tamil Nadu, during the death of certain personality. This is death dance. There would be certain people, who would be beating drums with certain tunes and then, there would be a troop of people who used to dance when they start moving from their home till the graveyard. The flowers would be thrown all over the pathway through which they move. This tradition is quoted as paying final tribute for the person who had died. They usually wanted the soul leaving the earth to be happy, so hearing these kind of beats make them feel happy is one perspective.

                               I don't have any idea about this, and neither no one living in the world would be able to realize whether this fact is true. But, with who's quote they came to such a conclusion is a big question mark. They might say some lies that, the died people came into my dreams and asked it and so we did it. On the another perspective, they announce that a particular person has died. They also provide advertisements on newspapers and wall posters etc. Another aspect that I don't like is the way they throw the flowers on streets.

                              It causes cleanliness problems on the streets and wasting of flowers is another cause of concern. on the other hand, the person doing garland business is benefited. On my personal opinion, I feel that these kind of celebrations are not worthy in terms of money involved and the harmfulness created to the environment and the wastage of resources. I don't want anyone to take it personal, it is just an opinion. Some other way of making them feel happy can be chosen so that no one is facing any loss.

INHUMANE ACTS FOR PUBLICITY

                                  Now a days people are looking for publicity everywhere. They wanted to show off themselves. I am just going to speak about some of the cruelty that has been known to people. A  well educated guy, did cruelty to an innocent dog. He was a medical student and went to the edge of the terrace of the building. He was taking a video and playing with a dog. Suddenly he threw the dog from that place. It was a shocker of a scene. Didn't he realize that it is a sin committed against an animal. And taking a video of that cruelty and sending it to their friends is still more cruel. But, without that video we might have not known about that incident.

                                 It was a very cruel act, but i feel it as a publicity stunt as the video was taken and sent to public. One such incident was the killing of camels, in some Arabian countries. I don't know the background of that incident and did not verify them, but still that video was again sent as a publicity stunt, If am not wrong. Camel is such an useful animal in desert and it was a shocker that it has been tortured to death in such a condition. A female monkey's brutalized body was exhumed. investigation found out that medical students had tied her up and beaten her up. A stick was inserted in her rectum and forced out through the front of her body.

                               Medical practitioners and animal activists were shocked by the crime, raising serious questions about the ethics being inculcated by the future doctors. Even attacking those animals attacking us, inhumane, but to safeguard our lives, we can harm them less and run away or escape from that scene. But, these stunts done for publicity should be severely punished. I am not a animal lover, still I could not bare the cruelty being done to animals and never wanted to allow this to happen to them. So, I request these kind of people to stop playing with the life of animals for showing that you are great. Show your talent in something else, not definitely in the lives of animals.



                               

SAREE- THE REAL TRADITIONAL WEAR TO WOMEN

                              There was a tough call in selecting the beauty between the gender of male and female. We can easily conclude that the word beauty belongs to female gender. I don't even have a single doubt in it. But, adding more beauty to the existing beauty of women is the saree that they wear. Whatever be the costume, they wear, the need to agree that, saree adds more beauty to them. The way they drape them is really excellent. But, now a days the girls don't prefer to wear saree, stating the time involved in getting ready with saree and the comfortable level being given more importance by them.

                              I strongly agree with them, yes definitely saree would take a long time than any other female costumes. But, they must agree with the fact that saree looks more traditional and adds beauty to them. In most of the shops, ladies section occupies almost 75% of the shop and sarees and related items almost occupy 35 to 40% if am not wrong. Such is the variety and design that are available for saree. There are a hell lot of types of sarees available in all the shops. But, still women takes a lot of time to purchase a single saree. I envy a lot on women for having a lot of varieties of dress for wearing especially saree.

                            Now a days it is very rare occasion to see modern women in sarees. We can see them wearing sarees on certain special occasions like wedding and certain women functions etc. In other areas, saree wearing have been reduced to a greater extent. The textile shops have come up with new innovations like keeping pockets in sarees, as certain ladies might find difficult to carry their cellphones. The two way draping sarees are also a masterpiece, which will have a different look while draping from one side and another look while draping on another side. I remember once when I went to textile shop an interesting incident happened.

                           I went with my parents for purchasing the dress for whole family. There were no varieties at all for my dad and me. But, when my mom went to the sarees section, the started to show many dresses. Each one was different variety or type and took long time for her to select. Anyhow, being a male I should not talk this much about women's dressing style or dressing sense, as they know better than me. But, still as a viewer or a normal human being, We would always have a special place for those girls or ladies wearing our traditional dress and preserving our culture.

BUTTERFLY EFFECT

                                 Most of them might know this concept, yet I would like to share few thoughts about this effect. Most of them, might have heard this term while watching some movies. In accordance with the chaos theory, the phenomenon where a minute localized change in a complex system can have a large effect in somewhere. It was originated in the year 1980, from the notion in the chaos theory, a butterfly fluttering in Rio de janerio could change the weather in another place like Chicago.

                                Initially, this term was majorly used in weather prediction, later it was used as a metaphor in science. The name was coined by edward lorenz. It plays a major role in weather and quantum mechanics. The real time example of tornado being influenced by minor perturbations such as flapping of the wings of distant butterfly several weeks earlier. He discovered the effect when he observed that runs of his weather model with initial condition data that was rounded in seemingly inconsequential manner.

                                 It would fail to reproduce the results of runs with the unrounded initial condition data. A very small change in initial conditions had created a significantly different outcome.It can also be used in simple systems, randomness of throwing outcomes of dice, depends on the characteristic to amplify small differences in the initial conditions. which makes it virtually impossible to throw the dice exactly the same way twice. A movie was taken in the year 2004 based on this concept.

SPENDING TIME WITH KIDS

                                  Kids are the boon given to god by all. Even, if we are in a any phase of life, kids light up our life. Especially those below 6 years of age. Though, people might consider that controlling them is very difficult ask and they might cause a lot of trouble. Yes, people having kids might consider like this. But, there are a lots of people in this world, who don't have any kids. They know the feeling of not having kids. So, am not going to talk about that. There are a lot of qualities that has to be adapted or adopted from the kids.

                                  The first and foremost thing to be considered is refreshing start. A new day a new beginning. The kids always be refreshing on the next day, rather than thinking about the previous day. The always want to be creative, they are not sure, whether they are doing right or wrong things, but never failed to try out new things. They are courageous. There is a proverb stating, a young calf knows no fear. Kids are so dare to do things. The ability to laugh around. The kids have very little things to feel happy, yet they are joyous. Children never like to sleep a lot, until and unless they feel tired. They are so active. So, it is important to be active like them.

                                   They are the expert of art of making friendship. These kids never see the caste, creed, language or religion or so, they always wanted to maintain a good friendship with peer kids and love to make new friends. The kids consider themselves as hero, whenever they try to tell a story about something, they consider them as hero. So, it is a very good positive approach to be learnt from kids. The ability to notice new things, even we might not be keen enough to notice the little things, but these kids have ability to notice minute things and can reciprocate, such is the capability of them. Even if they fall down, they try to get up on their own without needing any help from others.

                                   We have to learn lot of things like this from kids. Not only these many more to go. The kids need not be our own kid, it can be relative's kids or neighbor's kids or friend's kid. Spending a little minutes would make us overcome the difficult situations. How much ever stressed we are, we would overcome them. We would definitely get peace of time. I have had this experience many number of times. This post is a general post for people to learn about the importance of spending time with kids and the benefits of doing so.

BHADRAVATHI TRIP

                                   This trip was done during the summer vacation of 10th standard. This place is located in the state of Karnataka. It is famous for steel plant and the city is located in town of shimoga and the distance of 158 kms from the state capital Bangalore. We mainly tried to visit that place to attend some marriage ceremony. It is mainly derives it name from Bhadra river that flows through the city. We started from Chennai city, since it was a sudden trip, we started with 10 members that included 3 kids and am one among them and the parents and other relatives like uncle, aunt were the remaining members who traveled.

                                   This trip happened way back in the year 2007 or 2008 am not sure about the exact year. We somehow managed to get seats for Chennai to Bangalore in the unreserved compartment. After getting down in Bangalore, we need to take another train to reach Bhadravati. There were few more relatives who joined with us in the same train, somehow we adjusted and provided place for them also. We were not aware that, they were also our relatives, until that date. May be I might have not visited the functions they might have attended or the vice versa. After all, we don't get much time to visit particular person in their homes. Meeting them in these kind of functions is the only possibility.

                                  So, we got introduced to them, it was a habit of kids getting along with kids of similar age group, rather than elderly people. we got introduced to three of our sisters, they were our cousins by relation. One was too much elder to us, but still she mingled with us. One of her was just 2 or 3 years elder than us and the last one was some 5 or 6 years younger to us. We had developed a good bonding by that travel.  But again, from Bangalore, we had a few hours of travel to Bhadravati and reached the place by evening, attended the reception and stayed in that place. We enjoyed the climate, water and food.

                                Next day we attended marriage, had some fun events and then managed to stay along. But, the return train to Bangalore was filled too much, as the starting point was from some other point and not bhadravati. We struggled to find place to sit, especially elderly people struggled a lot. At that point of time, there was a hatred between two states and they did not want to provide seats in train to our state people. After, the tiresome journey, we reached Bangalore and from there another tiresome journey we reached our place. Wherever you might go, enjoy and do whatever, but getting back to home is somewhat special.

ALL THE WAY FOR HALWA

                                 Alwa is one of the famous sweets in Tamil Nadu and it is renown all over the world. Such is the wonderful taste of alwa. It might be present in most of the parts of Tamil Nadu. But, the real tasty alwa is present only in the Thirunelveli district. The major ingredients needed to make alwa includes Suji,sugar,water,ghee,cardamom,shredded almonds to garnish.There is one place known as "Iruttu Kadai"( Dark shop if we translate in English), it is the place where the Halwa has it's best taste. Usually, we won't halwa much. But after getting some friends who belong to Thirunelveli district. Alwa has become usual sweet for us at least once in a month.

                                 Whenever that friend goes to his native, we ask them to bring Halwa, such is the specialty of the dish. It might be too much oily, but the way it starts entering our mouth, it would be so light and we won't even realize  that we have finished eating it. Usually, that guy brings Halwa during the lunch break and there would be a definite tug of war, that would be happening to get the pieces of Halwa. We even named one of our friends by the name of halwa as he used to belong to that place of thirunelveli.

                                Not only that main halwa, there have been many dishes of Halwa, that can be made. The halwas can be made with having fruits or carrots as major items. It may be carrot halwa or kajar halwa or apple halwa and so on. The alwa made up of wheat also would be of greater taste. I actually started to write more about the tastiness of Halwa but due to the lack of points, I started to write about the types and making still I did not get any content for writing. So, I conclude by saying to know more about varities of halwa, please click on this link
http://simpleindianrecipes.com/HalwaVarieties.aspx

WORKING OUT CHEMISTRY

                               Don't worry friends, this post is definitely not related to education. The chemistry between a boy and girl. The amount of compatibility between two people of opposite gender is also known as chemistry, we are going to discuss about that chemistry only. I had a great doubt which did they name this as chemistry, I got a simple reply from one of the love guru, whom i knew. I don't know, whether he likes the subject chemistry a lot. But, he can achieve chemistry with girls at a good level. He clarified my doubt and stated that there would be some chemical reactions happening between the boy's heart and girl's heart. Boy's heart is basic in nature and girl's heart is acidic in nature.

                              If the love becomes success, the chemical reaction happens and salt is being formed. In certain cases, the base might not be good enough to neutralize the acid and form the chemical reaction. After hearing such a wonderful statement from him, I decided that he is definitely love guru. He also said that there is another important measurement that we need to know in chemistry, which is known as Ph. In chemical terms it is termed as power of hydrogen. The acids have value of Ph less than 7, whereas the bases have more than 7.
 
                               In the same context, he told that Ph level is nothing but making a girl fall in love. It is very difficult to make a girl fall in love who has the Ph level very low. The girls having Ph level of 4 or more can be easily converted to a love bird by boys having Ph level ranging from 8 to 10. I did not know, these many things are there to state term called chemistry. The term chemistry was first heard in context other than studies, was while watching a dance reality show. They often used the term chemistry between the pair is awesome. After, the explanation of love guru, I really understood the reason behind the importance of chemistry in working out a girl.

FEAR LEADING TO CRIME

                                  As discussed in some of my previous posts, crime cannot be separated as small, medium or large. Everything is a crime. This is about one of my friend, who committed small crimes in his schooling and the reason being fear. The initial crime happened, in his kinder garden. He always wanted to be best and first in everything. There was a race with him and his elder sister to whom will reach the class first. She went ahead of him, what he did was pushed her and then made her fall and he reached class first. The fear of losing the race made him do so.

                                  The second such instance was when he was in third standard, where he need to pay the fees for getting his result. But, he lost the money somewhere. He did not have the guts to ask money to ask his dad and state that he had lost the money. He rather took the money from his dad's pocket and paid the fees. Taking money from dad's pocket may not be considered as a crime in many cases, but still. Whomever it may be, taking money from other's packet is a crime. This process of taking money from dad's pocket continued in 4th standard also. He could have asked his parents, they could have provided him a huge money, instead he took from dad's packet which is a crime.

                                  In the 5th standard, he was fighting with one of his close friends, for time pass, they were writing bad words on each others notebooks, unfortunately class teacher caught both of them and were given warning. In 6th standard, he did not submit some assignment, teacher asked him to get signature from their parents. He forgot to the signature on that day. He immediately put dad's signature on that note. Again he got caught to his teacher. Putting another person's signature is a crime, but the fear of getting caught to the teacher made him do so. There are lot more stories like that, If this post reaches well, I would try to continue part 2 for this post.

THE STORY WHICH I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE AS A MOVIE

                                  This might be a very usual story, but still I would like to express it to all. A very nice guy "A" who makes friends and then good in studies, sports and literature. His weakness is arts and related things. He does not have one bad habit also. He never wishes to possess others objects, never likes to fight with others etc. But,on the other hand, there is one more guy "B" who is equally good in education and sports and better in arts and related courses and a step lower in literature. They both get seat in the same college. "A" never had any girl in his life and "B" always likes to be with girls. He will roam with them and enjoy, if he get bored with one girl, he might move on to next one.

                                "A" is basically shy to speak with girls and even if a girl speaks a single word to him, he feels it as a proud moment. On the other hand, "B" has done degree of philosophy about the girls. He can handle any type of girl. "A" never given much importance to girls, shyness may be one reason and a slight bad habit of canoodling and the way to approach girls were another reason for staying away from girls. "A" had little crush on "C" his schoolmate, but after knowing that she loves some other guy, he stays away from her. Till date, "C" does not know that "A"  had crush on her. Everything was going on smoothly in "A"'s life until the "D" entered.

                              "D" was one of the most beautiful girls in A's class, B belonged to some other class. But, "A" did not consider "D's" beauty, he felt her to be innocent and got a little crush over her. The crush increased the liking towards her. He did not know the real nature of her during that time. People were making fun of A and D by teasing both of them. D used to smile, this made a wrong perception in A's mind that, she too loves him. He proposes her, but after being rejected he decides to commit suicide, but after friend's advice, he comes out of that but still he had a special place for her in his heart.Enters "B", B's friends challenge him that, we accept that you have done Ph.D in girls life.

                              But, if you can make use of this "D", then we will agree with it. If you fail to do it, then we need a beer party, if you win we will give you a party. He planned and seduced and made her fall with him. A tried his best to save her, but it was beyond his control, as D's anger over A kept on increasing. After being utilized by "B", D realizes about the pure nature of A, but in the meanwhile, A and C joined together. After realizing the incident happened to D, A feels pity on her and decides to marry her, but he was stuck in between C and D. After some incident in his life, B realizes the mistake he had committed for D and decides to marry her, but D is not ready to accept him. Thereby, B has transformed but still no one believes him. Finally after a lot of twists and turns A and C joins together and B and D joins together.

CHILDHOOD DAYS WITH COUSINS

                           During the early childhood days, I would always be expecting the vacations like quarterly, half yearly and annual holidays. This is majorly to spend time with my cousins. That much wonderful days I used to have with them. I always had a good rapport with them and their parents. We used to enjoy our childhood in that manner. They usually have the habit of getting up a bit late in the morning at around 8 or 8.30 am. But, the illness that I have would never allow me to sleep after 6am. On very rare occasions, I used to sleep after 6am. i would be bored and try to watch TV programs, no channel provides my favorite shows or songs or comedies that early.

                          The villain inside me awakens, and wants to disturb their sleep, simply to go and play cricket in their terrace. No one like to wake up early. But due to my disturbance, they would definitely wake up and join me. Usually we have to maintain the record of our statistics. The number of balls we bowled, wickets taken, runs given, boundaries, best score and so on. Sometimes only two people might be there, we used to conduct an international match, by selecting player from both the teams and both of us, used to play one wicket for each team, If one wicket gets out, another person will play for another player from same team.

                          We will play till we are being called for breakfast. We would have breakfast and bath. There would be some difficulty for me, when it comes to food factor. There is a lot of relatives house in and around, everyone wants me to eat in their house, but am not a good eater. Somehow, I ll manage to eat and giving most preference to curd rice in the lunch and dinner. Breakfast can be anything. So. after having breakfast, I will go for some indoor games, if it is so tired for us to play on sunny day. But, whatever may be the case, we will start to play street cricket at 2.30 or 3pm and continue to play till it gets darken.

                          The days where we used to hit ball on others use and find difficult to get back and blame the person, who lost the ball, ask him to get new ball. Accidentally, hitting some shot on a person visiting that place. The evening games like ice boys, lock and key and so on. The dinner timing. The fear of holidays getting over soon and my parents taking me back home soon. The fear for phone call from my parents. The rolling of mine while sleeping on nights and many more wonderful memories, Dedicated to all my wonderful cousins and I am sure that we can't get those days back.

NO CONNECTION BETWEEN HEART AND BRAIN

                        This post is about a single personality and the relationship established between his Brain and heart. The persons who have proper connection between Brain and heart are always successful. The people following only heart or only Brain is also successful at times. But, there are a lot of people who are struggling in choosing whether to follow the path of heart or brain. This mainly occurs while taking even small small decisions. I would just share certain scenarios in which i faced problem to choose between heart and brain.

                         The first scenario is choosing the career perspectives. Heart wanted me to choose Chartered accountancy, but the brain decided to pursue towards Engineering. The next one is about food wastage. Heart never wanted to waste food at all, but the brain feels that, I am done I cannot eat more than that. Giving money to beggars, my heart wants me to donate some money for the poor, but brain stops me from doing it, stating that, they might misuse the money for drinking or so, as once I had seen the same beggar purchasing wines from wines shop. Food for beggar is a necessity, should not he feel that, drinking wines from a bar shop is Luxury, so from that moment brain stopped providing him money.

                        Brain just want me to work and earn money and not about job satisfaction, whereas my mind wants me to give preference to satisfaction level of the job rather than the salary that I earn. Heart wants to love a girl sincerely and try pursuing her but the brain stops me from doing that and says that there is always a problem when we go behind the girl. Heart wants peace, brain wants money. There are a lot more similar scenarios that are happening in my life. I am developing a lot of stress due to these scenarios, sometimes heart wins and most of the time brain wins. Don't know how to bring both my heart and brain in a same line, If anyone has some suggestions on this issue, Please provide me.

DATA EVERYWHERE

                             Data is always needed for most of the people in their life. Especially, the youngsters, they can live without even food or water but not without the internet data. Such is the scenario present among the people. There was one revolution brought up by one of the giants of the internet service providers among the country. Providing the free internet and free calls for a particular time period. The extension was again given for the offer to attract more customers. Now almost all of them have that network as one among the multiple sim cards they might have.Certain people have made this as primary network and others use as a secondary or backup.

                            Even if we need to pay some amount of money and obtain the internet pack, we people would see or browse a lot of things through the data pack, that we subscribe for. If there is no money involved and plenty of data is available. People were continuously using the internet services until they become bored of using them. The usage of data drastically increased and there are no way of controlling them. Even, if there were no necessity, the costliest of all, video calls were made for just time pass. The videos were downloaded and watched several times. Lot of people often listened to the songs simply without downloading them and every time they hear to video songs rather than audio songs that require less data.

                           The usage of social networking sites increased and the people were addicted to using them with the help of these service providers. On the one side we appreciate the data provider for bringing in such a wonderful scheme. But, the astonishing factor here, is the benefit this internet service provider is going to get by providing free schemes for a long duration of time, holds something fishy. Whatever the business, we are involved there needs to be a minimum threshold level of profit that has to be achieved, but I still did not get the profit, that will be gained by this service providers. But, they will definitely have same way to achieve the profit. I don't have answer for that currently, but will get to know the answer soon.

HEIGHT OF CONFIDENCE

                                 Confidence is very important in each and everyone's life. Without confidence, there is nothing that world that can be achieved, unless and until you have something called mere luck. Confidence is measured in some levels. The level may be high or low. This post height of confidence, measures the confidence of a person with a level and the reasons for not getting confidence. The major reason for not gaining confidence was his height. This guy is a level shorter than most of his friends. Though is average in height, in many cases he does not have confidence and claims his height as the reason.

                                  He has faced a lot of things due to his height factor. In his childhood, he has went for some rides in amusement parks. He was some 11 years may be and he was not allowed to go on a particular ride and the reason being stated as his height and not age. Though the minimum age limit for that ride was 12 years. That was the initial impact created on him by the height factor. There are lot more reasons, though he is not responsible for his growth, still this height factor reduces his confidence level a bit. The next reason being given by him was his hairstyle. Though, he has a curly hair, still due to some reasons, his hair won't look lengthy whatever he does.

                                  From his childhood, whenever he tries to tease someone, they immediately start to make fun of his hair and he would not get any point to counter attack someone whenever his hair is being brought into a scenario, he felt bad and confidence level lacked. He always tries to make others happy by being close with all and jovial also. In order of trying to be funny, most of the times, he end up being canoodling to them. This again reduced his confidence level by multiple steps. Being rejected by a girl in a single step and the issues faced by him because of her, also reduced the confidence level. He also have a fear to ride bikes, considering height as a major reason for avoiding it.
 
                                 Even after getting one of the greatest careers a person would have, still he did not gain confidence. He kept on losing the confidence getting a feel that I am not learning anything and others are moving many steps forward. That again reduced confidence one step. Whenever he does some exams, the peers of him would have more confidence on him rather than he has on his own self. When he plays cricket, his teammates have the faith on him, that he would definitely make his team win. But, after the reduction of  his confidence by the lot of external factors, he is struggling to motivate himself and waiting for a single victory.

LONG QUEUE WAITING

                               The most hated system of my lifetime so far is the queue system. The waiting time involved in queue system would kill me like anything. But, no other go, but to make something happen in a proper manner, the queue system must be involved. Otherwise, there would be a chance of facing a lot of danger. But, the main problem it, the queue system is not being followed in a proper manner. If there is some occurrence of a particular queue being favored for someone, it will be a great problem for me and I will get a hell lot of anger on those who are not following the proper queue.

                              Generally, the human have a following tendency. If they are given a opportunity to violate the queues and reach their destination they would be happy but if the same is done by another person and if they are becoming victim of such incident, they cannot bear it. This is a general human tendency. I would always be happy, if the physically challenged people or old aged people are asked to skip the queue. One thing that brings stomach burning tendency would be on seeing the separate queue for ladies or girls. The crowd of ladies would be very less in a case and that number of counters for them would be more.

                              A guy and girl might have come for same purpose at the same time, but the lady might have already left that spot and this guy might take half an hour more than her. But, there is a problem of having a same queue for them. There might be certain guys taking opportunity to misuse this system and there might be certain girls to show off something, even if the boy might be innocent. There is a possibility of both, hence separate queues are often good. I mostly used to avoid doing that thing, if the queue is long, I might go for an alternative.

                              Above all, waiting for something in the queue and when we are about to get it, but that particular thing might get over. That would be the worst case scenario, that we would never face in our life. On the whole queue system must be there, and separate queues can also be given for ladies and gents. But, the organizers of particular scenario must ensure that, the people waiting in the queues are not made to stand too long and all the people are benefited for standing so long in the queue. If the count of particular product gets over. They can make the people leave, while standing in the queue itself rather and making them waiting long and saying no.

ENGLISH IS JUST LANGUAGE NOT KNOWLEDGE

                       English, what is it? Just a language or something more. The simple answer is, it is a language but you already knew that. Now let’s go for a deeper answer. What makes English so special? It is understood by a very large population, I think it is the most commonly understood language of the world. Most of the Internet is in English, Even this blog is in English. 99% of all programming languages are based on English. Most of the best textbooks in all leading scientific subjects are in English.

                       How did this happen? Let’s look at some history, The British Empire was the largest empire the world ever saw, and with it English spread around the world. But there had been other large empires before the British. Two thousand years ago there was the Roman Empire and at that time Latin was the language of learning and Rome was the place of learning. Thousand years ago there was the Islamic Empire (Caliphate ) and Arabic was the language of learning and Baghdad was the place of learning.

                       During the British English was the language of learning and Oxford and Cambridge are the places of learning. It was all fine it is a common trend in history. But there is something special about English. The other two languages lost their status with the fall of its empire, but English continued to be popular even after the fall of the British Empire. How did this happen?
It is where the United States of America enters the world stage. The first and most of the popular programming languages were designed in America, a large part of the internet was invented there.

                       The best engineering universities like MIT, Stanford and CalTech happened to be there. With all these America also dominated world politics and economy, that help English maintain its status as the common language of the world.With all this is it still ‘just’ a language? Think about someone who knows English and who doesn’t. The person who knows has access to an ocean of resources in the Internet and in the form of textbooks. A person who knows English has a greater chance of managing in a foreign country, even non English speaking countries.

                      What should we do now? People who oppose the spread of English would prefer to use their native language. But how would they reach all those knowledge in English. Some would suggest translation. But who would translate and will all the books in English be translated into all the other languages in the world. I think learning English is easier than translating.Does that mean we should stop using other languages? NO, you still learn your native language and speak it in your own country. But also learn English with it. When you write something also write an English version so the rest of the world will have access to it.

YUMMY MANGOES

                               Certain food items won't be available throughout the year. There is a particular season only on which those items would be available. One such item is mango, it is a fruit which would be liked by almost all. The major drawbacks of mangoes are that it would be available only during certain seasons April to June or July maximum. The next one is the cost price is a bit on the higher side, due to it's taste. The next one is the time required for it to get ripen. Another thing is, it might get spoiled within few days. But other than these constraints mango is a great fruit to consume, which would be universally agreed by all.

                               One thing that I have heard about the ripening process was that, there are lot of fertilizers or chemicals are used to ripen the fruit artificially. So, some of them state that, they are harmful to consume. I am still not aware of the truth. Let us keep aside of that and come to the taste of mangoes. On Viewing the mangoes, wow there would be a feeling to bite them hard, certain people might get the feeling to just lick and enjoy the taste of it. The peel covering the mangoes would might be disgusting, but we would like to use our teeth to crush and peel them off. There may be certain who bite the skin of mangoes also.

                                The mangoes in the initial time of seasons are not tasty and those during the end of season will not be tasty. Those which have the purest taste and juiciness are those that comes during the mid season of summer. We can spend how much ever we want to enjoy them. We wont get satisfied by eating one or two, the demand will keep on increasing as the days pass on. The mangoes that we rob from someone else's garden will be more tastier than those that we get as a yield from their own garden. Whatever may be the person who doesnot like mangoes are real waste and they are never worth of living.