There is a lot of love and care present in all the families in the olden days. This was due to the joint family culture. The presence of joint family was due to the importance given to the relation and people rather than money and career. Those families split up and the number of children in the family started to reduce. Once upon a time, the overall strength of a family might be 50 and more. If the strength of family is less than 20 or so, then it is considered as a small family. Now a days having 10 people together itself considered as a big family and in most of the families the count is only 3. Husband, Wife and their child.
This is mainly occurred due to the influence of western culture on us. The person who are born with either sisters or brothers or both are the real lucky ones in the world. Having a elder sister, though she fights with us a lot, she always cares us next to our mother, after all she is also like a mother to us. Elder Brother might quarrel with us and always wanted to show that he is better than us, but when it comes to outside people, he never let us down and always supports us even when the mistake is ours. The same is with younger sister. She might like something, but when her brother wants it, she will give it.
They might think that the child without siblings have better benefit in terms and properties and the affection they get. But, it is not so, those children who doesn't have siblings always feel lonely. That too in present scenario, where both the parents are working, it is left out to the caretakers who are responsible for behavior of them. At the early stages of life, the person with the siblings might think that, life without siblings is better. But, after attaining certain stage, they won't be able to get those wonderful memories that they had in childhood.
They are lucky enough to have at least one sibling with them. Siblings can substitute the role of parents,caretakers,friends and so on. It is very difficult for others to replicate the role of siblings. Though, I have no siblings for me. I had my cousins and their friends who took over the role of my siblings and still doing so. Then I had a family in a new city who played the role of my brothers and sisters, whenever I was sad, they made me to come out of trouble and never let me down. I miss them a lot due to my career progression. Dedicated to those wonderful siblings and friends of mine.
This is mainly occurred due to the influence of western culture on us. The person who are born with either sisters or brothers or both are the real lucky ones in the world. Having a elder sister, though she fights with us a lot, she always cares us next to our mother, after all she is also like a mother to us. Elder Brother might quarrel with us and always wanted to show that he is better than us, but when it comes to outside people, he never let us down and always supports us even when the mistake is ours. The same is with younger sister. She might like something, but when her brother wants it, she will give it.
They might think that the child without siblings have better benefit in terms and properties and the affection they get. But, it is not so, those children who doesn't have siblings always feel lonely. That too in present scenario, where both the parents are working, it is left out to the caretakers who are responsible for behavior of them. At the early stages of life, the person with the siblings might think that, life without siblings is better. But, after attaining certain stage, they won't be able to get those wonderful memories that they had in childhood.
They are lucky enough to have at least one sibling with them. Siblings can substitute the role of parents,caretakers,friends and so on. It is very difficult for others to replicate the role of siblings. Though, I have no siblings for me. I had my cousins and their friends who took over the role of my siblings and still doing so. Then I had a family in a new city who played the role of my brothers and sisters, whenever I was sad, they made me to come out of trouble and never let me down. I miss them a lot due to my career progression. Dedicated to those wonderful siblings and friends of mine.
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