"Self help is the best help everyone" used to say, that is a true quote. It is practically impossible for everyone to perform everything by themselves. There is a definite situation or condition in which they need to get help from some other person. Even nature needs help from human being, then only our world can survive. The main help for nature would be we people. We need not pollute the environment and we are almost degrading the environment. There are very few natural resources left. We should ensure that we help them so that they never become extinct.
Another important thing to be considered is helping other people. That is reducing exponentially. The circumstances lead to doing so. The main thing is there a lots who are needed in real help. There are some fake people, who are ready to misuse the helping tendency of others. People are finding it difficult to analyse whether the person is really in need of any help. Help is just a ladder. It can be of any sort. Suppose, if a person is going in a scooter and another person has a headlight during day time, asking them to switch off that light is even a help. It might help another person coming in opposite direction and also it might help this guy to avoid accident.
The another important cause of not helping others is fear of getting betterment. There is a fear in the person's mind that if i help him here, he might become a greater person than me both in status or knowledge. But, there are certain cases in which helping tendency out shadowed everything. For instance we can take the Chennai floods into consideration. many people were helped by people from various parts of the world. I have seen many cases where a poor boy gets little amount of bread for eating, still he feeds a poor dog on streets and consumes very little for him.
If we come across some person in an accident. Many people are afraid to go and help them. Their fear is understandable but still it is a life matter. Life is more important than anything else. But, there are a few responsible people who have the helping tendency. They even sacrifice their work and take care of the victim till he is admitted in a hospital. Yes, the helping tendency is present in people but they are being well established, a crisis situation is needed to bring them out. This is a important character need to be possessed by everyone at least to some extent. Help is a service that cannot be charged or cannot be acquired, it is we ourselves need to develop.
Another important thing to be considered is helping other people. That is reducing exponentially. The circumstances lead to doing so. The main thing is there a lots who are needed in real help. There are some fake people, who are ready to misuse the helping tendency of others. People are finding it difficult to analyse whether the person is really in need of any help. Help is just a ladder. It can be of any sort. Suppose, if a person is going in a scooter and another person has a headlight during day time, asking them to switch off that light is even a help. It might help another person coming in opposite direction and also it might help this guy to avoid accident.
The another important cause of not helping others is fear of getting betterment. There is a fear in the person's mind that if i help him here, he might become a greater person than me both in status or knowledge. But, there are certain cases in which helping tendency out shadowed everything. For instance we can take the Chennai floods into consideration. many people were helped by people from various parts of the world. I have seen many cases where a poor boy gets little amount of bread for eating, still he feeds a poor dog on streets and consumes very little for him.
If we come across some person in an accident. Many people are afraid to go and help them. Their fear is understandable but still it is a life matter. Life is more important than anything else. But, there are a few responsible people who have the helping tendency. They even sacrifice their work and take care of the victim till he is admitted in a hospital. Yes, the helping tendency is present in people but they are being well established, a crisis situation is needed to bring them out. This is a important character need to be possessed by everyone at least to some extent. Help is a service that cannot be charged or cannot be acquired, it is we ourselves need to develop.
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