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GETTING HURTED BY PEOPLE WHOM WE LOVE

As a human being, we will definitely have some kind of feeling for fellow human being.  This cannot be stopped as this is against nature to stop human being have feelings for other human being. I have suffered a lot because of this feelings. There are a lot of true persons whom I have missed due to the feelings that I had on loved ones who never even considered me as a person. This suffering has started during the college days and it is continuing till now. It is very difficult to express our feelings on the person whom we love and it is equally difficult to the understand the feelings of the person who love us. We might not like them initially, but when we get loneliness, we might think about them and might be longing for them, they might be at a untouchable distance. It is hard for us to swallow this. Atleast, if the person considered as our loved one, stayed away from us, it is understandable to stay away from them. But, if they never understand us and meant to hurt us by s...

DYING WHILE DOING FAVOURITE JOB

Death is a natural calamity and we never have control over our death. There is not a correct age for death to occur. There may be people who might live long and acheive nothing and there may be few people who might die early but they might have acheived greater things in the world.This post was circulated as a whatsapp message. I am writing with the intention not to hurt anyone. There are 2 famous people who are connected to my heart and I am going to describe about their tragic deaths, that occured while doing their favourite job. The first person about whom I am going to write is our Ex-President Dr.A.P.J.Abdul Kalam. There is nothing much to describe about him as he is famous all over the world. He had many roles as president, Scientist and Teacher. His favourite among them is being a teacher. He was giving a lecture to the futures of India and he died unfortunately while that lecture. It is a huge loss to the nation especially youths as he is one of the inspiring leaders the ...

TOO MANY THINGS AT ONCE

              I am a normal human being, who is facing a lot of thoughts at a single time. I am not able to think the beneficial things at once. In certain aspects, I want something, but unfortunately, I am not getting it and I go to a situation where I need to accept something that comes my way. I am ready to do that too, but the hatred it creates from my inner part of mind is too high. But, after sometime, I might lose that too and when I got something else, then I realize the worth of the previous one that is not at all near me.              There are a lot of distractions that happens and reduces focus. I might plan on doing something but might end up in doing something else. I know that might be a waste of time, but I still end up in doing that. on certain cases, I might do something for getting something and sacrifice certain enjoyments that happen...

IN OTHERS SHOES

                We always have the problem of comparing ourselves with others. If I had been in his position or her position, I would have done so much. I would have enjoyed and things like that. But, in reality it is not at all possible. Life is a exam created by god and there are different question papers, that have been set for each of us. If we try to copy answer from others, we might get caught. Moreover, the answer written by others, might not be suited for the questions that are asked to us.                 It is very easy to criticise others, but when we stay in their position and the perform the tasks assigned to them, then we will feel the heat. This process of positioning ourselves in other's place or position is called as In Other's shoes. Before, thinking about entering into other's shoes, we need to understand one ...

SENTIMENT MOVIES

                              Movies are always considered to be a part of our life. Adding to their entertainment value, they must also deliver some kind of social message. At least, if they don't provide social message, they must ensure that they provide the value for the relationship. Sentiment movies are those movies which always quoted the importance of relationships. We must ensure that, the relationships are very much important in our life. But, now-a-days the value of sentiment movies dropped. Sentiment movies were in peak till the late 90's and early 2000's. But, now-a-days people never bother to turn a hear to these kind of movies.                               If they come across, certain sentiment movies, they would try to make fun of those movies. Now-a-days everything has been commercialized and these people want movies al...

CELLPHONE - THE THING THAT CONSUMES MOST OF OUR TIME

                     Time is one of the things that we could never buy, it is running so fast that, we might think a lot of days are left for certain things to happen, but the days are like minutes, minutes are running in the speed of seconds and seconds are running like nano- seconds. The Maximum amount of time spent in our life is while sleeping. But, after that, the maximum hours of time that is being spent rather wasted is while using cell phone. Of course, there are a lot of useful information, ideas and all communication can happen through cell phones, but being a normal human being, a lot of time is spent on useless activities rather than the useful ones.                    Play Mobile games is one of the useless activities that consumes human time. The next one is of course, whatsapp, where a lot of images, useless videos and text messages are shared. The third one being f...

CAMPUS INTERVIEW

              Job is most important thing for each and every person to own their living. Certain people have their own business and certain people enter into the companies with help of their referrals. But, a lot of people depend on their campus interview for placement. In campus interview, the college brings certain companies for getting their student placed. They provide immense training to their students on various skill sets required by the companies. It is always a opportunity for the students to make use of the opportunity provided by the college campus.               Once, the student leaves college campus, it is very difficult for the student to get job outside the job market. It is because, the competition will be too heavy. If a student finds it difficult to compete with 100's of students in their own campus. It will definitely be difficult for them to deal with 1000's of students outside the campus. In c...

LOVE FOR WRITING

                  I always have the habit of writing whatever that comes to my mind. Even my preparation of the exams requires a lot of writing. Writing the lessons learnt ensures that I am thorough enough of the topics that I had learnt. This habit was developed from my gene and my parents gave me this idea during my schooling. Even after reaching college and company, I am unable to leave the writing habit. I always like to write something or the other. This writing has some expectations of gaining some popularity and appreciation of others, hope that will be got in the near future.                   Pen or Pencil is the important tool for writing. Till our third class, we used to make use of pencil for writing. It was during the 4th standard, I developed the habit of writing everything with the help of pen. At the initial stages, my handwriting in pen was not so good. It was even very difficul...

PRIORITY IN OTHER'S LIFE

            There is always a case of worry in the minds of people. They used to think that, why am I not so important in other's life. Let me discuss the reasons for doing so. Because we never prioritize ourselves. We are always available for them and they know that, we are readily available for them. Because they never feel proud of having you. We dont possess anything that they can flaunt in front of others. We give a priority to people those who never mind about us at all. We let ourselves as a choice in front of others. We are giving a great value to people who never values us at any cost.              We care too much and let others exploit you . Being too good and not knowing that other people are taking advantage in you. We are wasting feelings on people who never deserve it. We are still maintaining that bad relationship. We are yet to meet the people who are worth keeping. We are constantly made inferior to th...

GIRLY FIGHTS

                        It is also known as cat fights. Many times I have come across certain different fights that happen in the world. To be specific, I always like to witness the fights that happen between two girls. Girly fights does not mean, two men fighting for some girl. It simply means, two girls fighting for a silly reason. The main fight comes when two girls who consider themselves as equally important, out of which one gets the importance and the other one does not get the required importance. The fights happen in a very childish manner. They would never wanted to accept their defeat or mistake.                          These fights might happen without any reason at some cases. when we expect the fight to be over, it might continue. There won't be much worthiness of such a fight to happen. In other cases, we might consider a fight to prolong a long...

OVER CAUTIOUS

              One Kind of behavior that should not be possessed by all is over-cautious. It is good to be cautious, but over cautiousness limits the expansion of ones freedom. There would be a lot of restrictions that will be levied on the person when they feel him to be over-cautious. Being overcautious might result in minimizing the error, but there is never a assurance that the error will never happen at all. Definitely, the person needs to get some leverage in doing their works. These people are certainly having some kind of disorder that is know as overcautious disorder.                We can take example from the cricket scenario, we are playing a test match and our team is playing to draw the test match and we have all the wickets in hand and fifth day of the match and around 400 runs to win on the final day, which is herculean task and never happened on the fifth day. All the batsmen's intention would ...

FREQUENT OCCURRENCES OF HEALTH ISSUES

                               It is very much important to take care of our health. The major trouble to health is caused by the five sense organs. The nose smells unwanted or unpleasant smells and then, it sends them to the body and cause some trouble. The hand touches a lot of untidy things, it may be while playing or cleaning or so on. Similarly, the trouble to eyes is caused by the unnecessary dusts or unnecessary strain provided to eyes by reading or texting in darkness. The ear gets troubled when it is exposed to too much of noise, the speakers and ear phones are often  trouble makers for ears. Sense of taste is another trouble maker for health, we know that these kind of foods will definitely cause troubles yet we are in-taking these foods.                                All the five sense organs are inter-related...

ENCOUNTERS WITH MONKEY

                               This is one of the interesting travel experiences that I had with the monkeys. Human Mind is like a monkey is the famous quote that has been said in olden days. We human evolved from monkeys and we worship monkey as the incarnation of lord Hanuman, who was a monkey by birth. Now, let me get out of the mythology and set upon the travel experience that I had. There is a famous place in Tamil Nadu, named as Sholingur Temple. Me and my parents went to that temple for praying to god. There were a lot of monkeys in and around the temple. There would be a bamboo stick to threaten monkeys. The monkeys present there has a habit of snatching the things present in the hands of people.                                So, people take this stick and go. They wont harm the monkeys but to avoid them from taking t...

GULLY CRICKET

                        Cricket is the game that can be played on any kind of surface. The major requirement is any kind of ball which is smaller in size. It can be tennis ball, leather ball, sponge ball, plastic ball or rubber ball. It necessarily need not have bat, any lengthy material that has the capacity to withstand the weight of ball when hit, it is needed. The material used as the bat need not be the bat, it can be wood or exam pad or anything of the sort. The only requirement of the so called bat, need to withstand the hardness of  the ball. Everyone wants to play the aggressive mode of cricket. The bowlers wants to bowl aggressive and take the wicket of batsmen.                          The batsmen wants to go for the kill and hit boundaries and sixes. They are not bothered about the fall of their wicket. As, the games played in gully cricket are...

DISTRACTION OF THOUGHTS

                    Thoughts come to every person. But, those who interpret their thoughts into an interesting manner are succeeding. I am not thinking anything new, whatever comes to my mind, I am just interpreting into useful forms. A lot of thoughts come to each and every person in this world. But, each and every thought of a person never needs to be successful. Certain thoughts can be too good and certain may be clumsy. There would be certain thoughts that would be of the nature of animals. Every person cannot be human every time, some time or the other certain destructive inhumane thoughts comes to every person that is unavoidable. Each and every person needs to admit that atleast few thoughts of person are definitely destructive in nature.                     There is a famous law stated by the greatest scientist I have ever come across, Sir.Isaac Newton, his third law of motion ...

QUESTIONABILITY

                    Education should be means of mutual learning. The students as well as teachers must learn new things in a mutual way. There are a lot of things to be learnt from the students of this generation who have a better grasping powers than those of the previous generations. The classroom sessions must be interactive rather than the one way traffic. There are a lot of students who get some brilliant doubts and teacher might appreciate them. There are a few students who might ask stupid doubts, no doubts are stupid until and unless doubt arises all doubts are equally good. The doubt that I mentioned as stupid are those that are considered as stupid by teachers.                      I really appreciate people those who get doubt, this doubt needs to be clarified. It is not necessary that the doubts needed to be clarified only on classroom sessions, it can be clarified pe...

MONOACTING

                                Everyone wants to perform their role in a perfect manner. No one can expect us to perform other's role. There is a definite variation of a person from another person's role. This holds good for real life. Now, the heading is about the mono-acting in reel life. A single person performing the roles of more than one person. I have seen many mono-acting performances. One of the memories, that I would like to share was the role of Kattabomman and Jackson Durai performed by one of the schoolmates. Initially, I did not understand what she was doing. The body language of two different personalities very entirely different.                               For few seconds, the body language was different from other and the dialogue delivery was also changed. The Dialogue of Kattabomman was very much strong and f...

IS CORPORATE A SNAKE AND LADDER GAME

                      As all of us know the game of snake and ladder. The ultimate goal of the game is to use the ladders and escape from the snakes and reach the destination. of course, the destiny of the game is decided by the rolling of dice that is based on luck. In the corporate the dice is none other than the technology that we adopt. The technology needs to be updated, this learning of technology provides us the ladder to move forward in the career. But, if the technology gets outdated,we will end up to the mouth of snake and drag our position down and end up as snake's tail, which is happening in many of the corporate companies.                       There are a lot of automation that are being involved in the companies and the peoples are being laid off from the companies. Corporate provides them huge career growth like the ladders of the game but suddenly they send ...

PARENTS OF DIFFERENTLY ABLED

                   Parents are the living gods and each parent are taking care of their kids in a great way. But, there are certain parents who insist on kids to do certain things rather than taking decisions on their own. This creates a lot of reliability to the children to their parents in making certain decisions. I have observed a parent of a differently abled children and this post is generally dedicated to them. Most of us think that, our parents are very strict to us, there are a lot of people who doesn't have parents and they know the worth of scolding they get from parents. Similarly, there are some parents who always keep on complaining their children, the parents who doesn't have child or the parents whose child are differently abled knows the worth of the normal child.                     The parents of differently abled, will definitely try not to show their anger on their...

LINKAGE BETWEEN POVERTY AND CORRUPTION

                        Corruption discourages the foreign and domestic investments. Corruption also taxes the entrepreneurship. Corruption lowers the quality of infrastructure that has been provided to the public.Corruption decreases the revenue that is earned through tax. Corruption diverts the talented personalities into the rent seeking personalities. The most important factor of corruption is that, it degrades the governance of the particular body or society etc. As we all know the important economic concept "People those who are rich are getting richer and the people who are poor are getting poorer". This is basically due to the concept called as corruption.                           There may be many great and wonderful schemes that are being introduced to the poor people by the government. But, are these schemes reaching the right person at the right ti...