TOO MANY THINGS AT ONCE

              I am a normal human being, who is facing a lot of thoughts at a single time. I am not able to think the beneficial things at once. In certain aspects, I want something, but unfortunately, I am not getting it and I go to a situation where I need to accept something that comes my way. I am ready to do that too, but the hatred it creates from my inner part of mind is too high. But, after sometime, I might lose that too and when I got something else, then I realize the worth of the previous one that is not at all near me.

             There are a lot of distractions that happens and reduces focus. I might plan on doing something but might end up in doing something else. I know that might be a waste of time, but I still end up in doing that. on certain cases, I might do something for getting something and sacrifice certain enjoyments that happen during those times, but I would be happy If i had gain or achieved something during those leisure times, but I end up in losing those wonderful moments as well as ending losing up in the work that I intended.

               I am not able to stay normal like other human beings,I end up in being frustrated a lot number of times. I always never wanted to show my frustration on other people, but they misinterpret on me and thinking that I am mad. I don't wanted to show my anger on others and hurt them. Instead, I would prefer crying myself and letting out my sorrow. people might think me as coward, but unfortunately, crying in front of other need more courage.

IN OTHERS SHOES

                We always have the problem of comparing ourselves with others. If I had been in his position or her position, I would have done so much. I would have enjoyed and things like that. But, in reality it is not at all possible. Life is a exam created by god and there are different question papers, that have been set for each of us. If we try to copy answer from others, we might get caught. Moreover, the answer written by others, might not be suited for the questions that are asked to us.

                It is very easy to criticise others, but when we stay in their position and the perform the tasks assigned to them, then we will feel the heat. This process of positioning ourselves in other's place or position is called as In Other's shoes. Before, thinking about entering into other's shoes, we need to understand one important thing. We need to remove our shoes and then we need to move into other's shoes. Without removing our shoes, we enter into other's shoes, it will be very tight.

                Similarly, when we think about being in some other person's position, we need to come out of our own position. Then only, we will know the pain. This is practically not possible until and unless we do some kind of swapping and moving from one soul to another. The important thing that I learnt about not moving to other's position is we have our own position and chance for living, if we concentrate on that alone, it is more than enough.